Thursday, February 24, 2022

R.I.P. Old Friend

An old schoolmate passed away ten days ago. I knew him from age six. One of my first teammates on the basketball court. I remember how sad I felt when I heard the news that he would no longer be playing basketball with us because of a knee disease that afflicts youth in their growth spurts. I thought at the time that it was a lifetime sentence to no more hoops ..... but he was back the next season. We were altar boys and patrol boys together. After high school, we lost touch for a number of years. We crossed paths two or three times in the grocery store but there was never much more than, "Hello, how have you been?" Until that is, ten years ago, maybe less, when we re-connected through facebook. He organized a reunion for several of us old friends for a Saturday afternoon of bowling, memories and storytelling. He paid for it all and paid for the beer. A prankster growing up but never in a malicious way. He made a great number of friends in his lifetime. And now he's gone. Many people will miss him.  

I've lost way too many old schoolmates lately. I've accepted that I'm no longer immortal. Too often I wonder, who's next?

Tuesday, February 22, 2022

Notes and Issues

Yeah, I have issues and notes. Almost daily even. Mostly trivial. But I'm going to mention them anyway.
  • Went amok in the kitchen last night, which is generally bad news but this time, with surprisingly good results. And there's leftovers!! Though I really should be supervised.
  • I guess Best Buy doesn't do old school boomboxes anymore.
  • It seems like for every pair of socks that I pick up and place in the laundry basket, two more pairs magically appear on the living room floor.
  • Odd facts about me. I don't care for cheese or chunky peanut butter and I love old world war II movies. 
  • My favorite Beatles song is: 'Martha My Dear'
  • You know what I really hate? I had a note in mind for this spot on the page and then proceeded to forget it. While away from my computer, I remembered, but by the time I returned, I forgot it again. That seems to be how my world spins these days.  

Monday, February 21, 2022

Final Thought

I want my final memory to be of you.

My final thought as I take my last breath.

It's been considered that you'll likely never know.

Thursday, February 3, 2022

Losing a Friend

There are times when I never know what to say. Just a few thoughts that went through my mind this evening upon hearing that an old lost friend has suffered a loss  ...... 


Eventually, the day arrives

Our oldest friends pass

And we who are left behind

Deal with what remains in the wake

The accelerated flashbacks

The enhanced memories

The absent smile you expect to see tomorrow

Savor what made them great

Don't forget the sound of their voice

Hope that they are watching

Know they are free